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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: MaryCas]
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11/22/13 02:17 PM
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You know the AARP organization? You know the old fogey group? LOL Well they asked for "where were you" stories and I submitted mine. JFK's death really really hit me for some reason. I was only 11 when he ran and 15 when he was killed but will ALWAYS remember that day.  It's kind of lengthy so read if you want. I lived in Grand Rapids, MI on 11/22/63. I was in 10th grade, 5th period, Mrs. Bergstrom’s English class. Suddenly the PA system came on saying that the President was shot. Within minutes (it seemed) the famous Walter Conkrite announcement came on letting us know the President had died. I still see my teacher’s face with her chin cupped in her hands, taking a big sigh and seemingly fighting tears as she listened. I felt so shocked, so sad and couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I wanted to cry.
The school halls were eerily quiet as the school day ended and I headed to the school bus. The ride home was very quiet until one boy, who’s face is firmly in my mind (tho I’d have to check my yearbook for the name), was obviously NOT a JFK fan (I assume he learned from his parents).
He said loudly (and likely only to let everyone know he didn’t like JFK), “they should have shot him again, and again, and again.” I often wonder if this boy regrets or even remembers his remarks that day. Anyway, I was too sad, numb to say/do anything. I just wanted to go home an turn the tv on, and looking back on it now, what I wanted was to mourn the loss like everyone else. Let it soak in.
I spent the weekend glued to the tv listening to all the news and when they showed Jackie or pictures of the kids, I just cried in disbelief. It was like losing someone close in the family. I still remember my mom preparing Sunday dinner as we watched Oswald get killed on live tv. Oh my God, this was surely something unheard of. My whole family was stunned.
I felt totally numb & shocked the entire weekend, thru the funeral. I couldn’t believe this could actually happen, not in our country. I loved JFK. His wit, charm, intelligence made me a fan immediately even tho at that age, I didn’t know a lot about politics. HE got me interested. I remember watching the debates at 12 yrs old not totally understanding but I was drawn to them because of JFK.
On a side note, and a memory I am so grateful for, is, when JFK was running for President in 1960, he came to Grand Rapids, Mich. I was in Catholic School at the time and needless to say, the nuns/priest and students were pretty excited about the thought of the first Catholic President. So much so, that when they found out that JFK’s motorcade was going to pass the intersection of the school, the entire school (about 80 kids LOL) walked to the corner to wave.
He was sitting on top of the back seat of a convertible (little did we know) smiling/waving. Well, I wasn’t a big girl and I wormed my way to the front, in the street, and lo an behold I waved at him and of course it seemed he smiled and waved right back at me. A memory I’ll never forget.
"Mankind must put an end to war before war puts an end to mankind. War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today." JFK
"War is over, if you want it" - John Lennon
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: DE NIRO]
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11/22/13 03:37 PM
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Happy Birthday to your Dad PB.. Nice, DeNiro. Thanks, pal  .
"I got news for you. If it wasn't for the toilet, there would be no books." --- George Costanza.
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: 123JoeSchmo]
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11/22/13 03:54 PM
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My parents didnt even exist yet. I'm even older than your parents, Joe? Aw, for Christ's sake  .
"I got news for you. If it wasn't for the toilet, there would be no books." --- George Costanza.
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: pizzaboy]
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11/22/13 04:04 PM
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My parents didnt even exist yet. I'm even older than your parents, Joe? Aw, for Christ's sake  . Haha yeah PB. You didn't honestly think my parents were baby boomers did you? 
"Don't ever go against the family again. Ever"- Michael Corleone
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: pizzaboy]
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11/22/13 04:16 PM
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My parents didnt even exist yet. I'm even older than your parents, Joe? Aw, for Christ's sake  . Don't feel bad PB...i'm only a year or two behind you. Don't let all these young guys get to you. 
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: Giancarlo]
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11/22/13 04:22 PM
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pizzaboy
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Don't feel bad PB...i'm only a year or two behind you. Don't let all these young guys get to you. And we still have guys here like SC and Turnbull to make us look young by comparison, so there's that  .
"I got news for you. If it wasn't for the toilet, there would be no books." --- George Costanza.
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: pizzaboy]
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11/22/13 04:28 PM
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And we still have guys here like SC and Turnbull to make us look young by comparison, so there's that. Don't include me in that group. Turnbull and MaryCas remember when Lincoln was shot.
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: SC]
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11/22/13 06:31 PM
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And we still have guys here like SC and Turnbull to make us look young by comparison, so there's that. Don't include me in that group. Turnbull and MaryCas remember when Lincoln was shot. Don't forget TIS. Weren't you the guy who advised Arnold Rothstein on who to bribe? 
Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, whoever humbles himself will be exalted - Matthew 23:12
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: MaryCas]
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11/22/13 06:41 PM
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Weren't you the guy who advised Arnold Rothstein on who to bribe? That was Arnold Schwarzenegger.
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: MaryCas]
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11/23/13 03:50 PM
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Growing up, I remember everybody recalling where they were and what they were doing on that terrible day. I always felt left out of the conversation as I was merely a fetus on that date. Today those not born by the assassination date outnumber those, who remember.
My mother and father were going to tell family members that they were expecting another addition to the family on 11-22-1963, but the tragic death of the president made them delay news of my arrival another week.
On the 25th anniversary of the assassination I was in law schiil in Boston and was visited by my brother, who was a history buff on all things Kennedy. We visited the Kennedy Library in Dorchester where we learned admission was free that day. We could have stayed days there. My brother worked in the same building with Jackie and would often have a polite conversation when they would ride the elevator.
Three years later my wife and I happened to be vacationing in Boston and Cape Cod and actually strolled inside the family compound in Hyannisport on the anniversary. The cape is pretty quiet in November, but I think I had posted once before that while there some women approached us and asked if my wife would take a picture of them with me. We were both dumbfounded, but obliged. They thanked us and left us confused. A landscaper was having a laugh to himself and then told us that I closely resembled one of Rose's grandsons at the time. Those ladies must have shown that picture with me to many, saying they met a Kennedy. Someone must've set them straight.
A few things about Kennedy. He is the primary reason why men largely stopped wearing hats in the 1960s. JFK mostly avoided hats, which were commonly worn by men for many decades.
Also, the assassination was probably the most important event in the history of television, which was still feeling its way in American culture. This event shaped and defined the medium. Just prior to the assassination network news moved from a 15 minute to a 30 minute format, and the ongoing coverage through the weekend, including the live broadcast of Ruby shooting Oswald, changed the way Americans regarded television.
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: klydon1]
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11/23/13 04:02 PM
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I was a reporter for the Wall Street Journal on 11/22/63. When I came back from lunch, the entire newsroom was in an uproar, with all of our wire service tickers ringing bells and spitting out roll after roll of print. People were standing around the tickers, some weeping openly. One asshole joked that Vaughan Meader, a comic who'd made a career doing JFK imitations, would be out of work. We practically lynched him. Then the NYSE announced it was closing, and most of us went home. The subway ride home was eerily quiet, with every passenger looking solumn.
Ntra la porta tua lu sangu � sparsu, E nun me mporta si ce muoru accisu... E s'iddu muoru e vaju mparadisu Si nun ce truovo a ttia, mancu ce trasu.
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Re: Where were you 50 years ago when JFK was shot?
[Re: Turnbull]
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11/23/13 05:05 PM
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One asshole joked that Vaughan Meader, a comic who'd made a career doing JFK imitations, would be out of work. We practically lynched him. Sounds like something that happened to me on 9/11, TB. I was in a bar in Midwood (near IJM) watching the coverage. Some asshole joked that he'd have to cancel his reservation at Windows on the World that night. I literally almost killed him  .
"I got news for you. If it wasn't for the toilet, there would be no books." --- George Costanza.
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