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"If a man doesn't spend time with his family, he isn't a real man"
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Vito said this to Johnny right before deciding to grant him the favor of getting him the part in Woltz' picture. Watching the movie last night, my wife pointed out that he was really talking to Sonny, who had just finished humping the bridesmaid at the top of the stairs. Vito turned around to look at Sonny right before he said it. I hadn't noticed in the umpteen times I've seen it before.
Is my wife correct?
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Re: "If a man doesn't spend time with his family, he isn't a real man"
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So did Tom tell on Sonny or what? Vito was in the room the whole while Sonny was skirt-chasing. Or did he just know his son well enough to know he was up to his usual antics?
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Originally posted by Krlea: I love the way Sonny looks at Tom immediately after Don Vito says that. As if to say, "you friggin' tattle tale!"
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Well, Sonny's wife clearly knew. When Sonny approached her at the reception and said, "watch the kids, don't let them run around" she said, "you watch yourself" or something to that effect.
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Come on, everyone in that position, with power, had a mistress and everyone around them knew about it. Sonny was just the only one who was really exploited. Sure he may have been a little hornball but you know Mike did, Carlo, well enough said about him, Tom the most thought provokoing and intellegent guy but even he cheated on his wife. Now Vito, well I wouldn't think that Vito cheated on Momma Corleone, because he was older and more traditional but thats the only reason. Had Vito been younger and in the same position, even eith the same morals he probably would have had a mistress. It was no big deal to them, it was perfectly normal.
Sonny was probably the closest to Tom-if it wasn't for Sonny, Tom would not have even been there-so the look Sonny gave was probably just embarrassment. It wasn't like he was even thinking "Darn! Pop knows I'm cheating", it was more like "Darn! Pop is aggrivating me about cheating".
But even though Vito was very offended, that is just the way things were.
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Re: "If a man doesn't spend time with his family, he isn't a real man"
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Originally posted by AllAboutTheFamily: Come on, everyone in that position, with power, had a mistress and everyone around them knew about it. Sonny was just the only one who was really exploited. Sure he may have been a little hornball but you know Mike did, Carlo, well enough said about him, Tom the most thought provokoing and intellegent guy but even he cheated on his wife. Now Vito, well I wouldn't think that Vito cheated on Momma Corleone, because he was older and more traditional but thats the only reason. Had Vito been younger and in the same position, even eith the same morals he probably would have had a mistress. It was no big deal to them, it was perfectly normal.
Sonny was probably the closest to Tom-if it wasn't for Sonny, Tom would not have even been there-so the look Sonny gave was probably just embarrassment. It wasn't like he was even thinking "Darn! Pop knows I'm cheating", it was more like "Darn! Pop is aggrivating me about cheating".
But even though Vito was very offended, that is just the way things were. That is your interpretation, and a good one. To me, Sonny's look at Tom was "Oh sh__, how did Pop know? Did you squeal?"
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I never got the impression Tom told the don about Sonny. The novel explains in more detail how much Sonny helped Tom by saving him from an unsavory street existence. Also, it would not have been Hagen's nature to report this relatively "harmless" information. It would almost be beneath him.
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Re: "If a man doesn't spend time with his family, he isn't a real man"
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Originally posted by madewoman: it would not have been Hagen's nature to report this relatively "harmless" information. It would almost be beneath him. Yes, but would he lie if Vito asked him where Sonny was? The only time I saw Tom break his robot-like demeanor is when he had to tell Vito about Sonny's death. I don't think he could easily lie to the Don.
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Re: "If a man doesn't spend time with his family, he isn't a real man"
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You may be right, MaryCas. AT MOST, it would have to be something very subtle, like a look between Hagen and Vito.
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Originally posted by AllAboutTheFamily: Come on, everyone in that position, with power, had a mistress and everyone around them knew about it. Sonny was just the only one who was really exploited. Sure he may have been a little hornball but you know Mike did, Carlo, well enough said about him, Tom the most thought provokoing and intellegent guy but even he cheated on his wife. Now Vito, well I wouldn't think that Vito cheated on Momma Corleone, because he was older and more traditional but thats the only reason. I don't remember any proof, or that matter insuation, that Michael had a mistress. We know that Sonny & Tom did, but nothing I remember from the films or the novel suggested that Michael cheated on Apollonia or Kay with another woman. He certainly lied to Kay on a regular basis...
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Re: "If a man doesn't spend time with his family, he isn't a real man"
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Originally posted by deathkiss: Yes, your wife is right. This is usually the case. 
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In the book, it says that Tom thought about reporting it to the Don, but thought it better to not say anything. The Don had enough to deal with, what with consigliere Genco dying in the hospital, the upcoming meeting with Sollozzo, and whatever the hell Johnny was telling the Don in the room while Tom was away. Like someone above said, mentioning something like this would be somewhat below Tom.
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Re: "If a man doesn't spend time with his family, he isn't a real man"
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Originally posted by xXx_DoN_CoRLeOnE_xXx: In the book, it says that Tom thought about reporting it to the Don, but thought it better to not say anything. The Don had enough to deal with, what with consigliere Genco dying in the hospital, the upcoming meeting with Sollozzo, and whatever the hell Johnny was telling the Don in the room while Tom was away. Like someone above said, mentioning something like this would be somewhat below Tom. Cool. I obviously need to read the book. The movie was directed at an audience that did not read the book, however. It is hard for a director to provide that type of backround info in a screenplay. BTW, does the book take us through GFII? GFIII? Beyond?
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Re: "If a man doesn't spend time with his family, he isn't a real man"
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Originally posted by sonof70s: BTW, does the book take us through GFII? GFIII? Beyond? No.. the third part of the book discusses some of Part II (the flashback scenes with Vito and how he rose to power), but that's all.
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