Those between the ages of 15-25 may be the only ones who can relate to this question.

First let me say, that this is not neccesarily based on my personal experiences. It is just something that me and my friends joked about one day, and we couldnt figure out the answer. Here it goes...

When another guy is "grinding" on you, and he happens to get a little bit excited ( Christ there is no easy way to say this), do you the girl, get offended, grossed out, flattered, or all of the above?

is grinding like making out er what lol-by the way im a guy and this info will be very handy(why do i sound like a pervert lol)

A fast dance with the girl rubbing her ass in the guy's crotch, at least usually.

Was that too blunt? :p

Nah I think you nailed it DV. Grinding is a new form of dance, that probably only the younger generation will know of.

ooo now I know lol. Notice no women are answering your question lol.

Most would probably be secretly flattered.

my guess would be it depends on if it feels like a redwood or a toothpick poking at them

it depends on how drunk/into you she is

Most girls think it's funny, I usually do

Why do we not answer?
I, personally, am a bit older than 25, and you seem not to be interested in my opinion! :p

Are you asking from personal experience, RB?

I'm 28 so I hope you don't think I'm too old to answer your question. I think most girls would be flattered, but maybe also a little embarrassed if there were other people around, and it was obvious to other people that you were *ahem* excited!

I wouldn't worry about it too much, tho. Its perfectly normal.

Why shouldn't we over-25 girls relate to the question? We haven't still reached the peace of senses, my dear!

Anyway, it really depends on circumstances. If my partner happens to be excited I'm quite excited too and amused (and I like A LOT to get my partner excited in the wrong place and/or at the wrong time! ). If a stranger on a crowded bus makes sure to let me know his "appreciation" over me I feel disgusted and go away. If it's a friend we are talking about who is ocasionally excited because of me....( ) well....I would be embarassed, but I'd justify him.... :p

I think most girls are different. I wouldent be flattered, no matter what it means. I'd be embarrassed for him. If it was a guy I didn't like (don't know why I'd be dancing with him in the first place though) then I'd be grossed out. I'd be annoyed if he continued to dance with me in that "condition" ha ha.

Ah... Don't worry. Some girls like me wouldn't even notice and continue dancing!! :p

The men must be very poorly equipped round your way if you wouldn't notice!!!

HA HA HA!!!!

You know that I've danced half way around the globe! But as for Iranian guys I wouldn't really know. Unfortunately this kind of dance is not common here. :p

Jesus Part. Well to answer your question, yes this has of course happened to me. If you are a guy who has danced, and it has not happened to you, then you are either lying or gay. There wasnt any particular reason I decided to ask the question, I was just curious at what people besides me thought.

But this one time while I was in Jamaica on vacation, I was in this teen dance club thing they had. This bangin British chick started to dance wit me, and not unlike your situation Part, I was surprised. Well after about a minute or so, it happened, and I was so embarrased.

just be glad THAT'S THE ONLY THING that happened in a minute :p

Well, that'll explain it, then...us British girls are the sexiest!! :p

Luckily for you I think I'm the only one who caught this! Shame on Partagas! You know my husband is a pretty big guy!

Haha! I am not an expert, I have just attended way too many frat parties the last 2 years

I don't grind. That's not dancing. Instead of grinding, I just have sex with the girl after were finished dancing.

Luckily for you I think I'm the only one who caught this! Shame on Partagas! You know my husband is a pretty big guy! [/b][/quote]Nuh uh, I caught it too... Pretty funny.

Btw, Part... thank God the spandex days are over!!
I haven't laughed like that over something written since the Kona story!

So did I! I wanna see a fight between Steve and Part!! Yay!! :p

I'm putting my money on Steve. No offense Part, but he's younger, bigger, and he's in the Navy.

Hey Part, although I put my money on Steve too; I'll be cheering for ya! If you win, you get to dance with me and I'll let the board know if I notice anything! :p

Steve -vs- Partagas. That would be pretty funny...and a short fight

Where can I buy a ticket? As much as we love ya Part I gotta go with the Navy man. Us Navy wives have to stand by our SEAMEN

Well Mig, we have to see if Part wouldn't back down first. If I were him, I would.