Originally posted by Joseph:
In my personal experience, the type of person who attracts you emotionally and physically is not really subject to choice, per se. I think if you're gay, it's a congenital predisposition; by the same token, if you're attracted to older women - as I have been my entire life - it's simply due to the signals your eyes, heart and mind give off when you're in contact with the person you're attracted to.
Well, actually I was always drawn to much older men, I just can't stand infantile boys I've nothing to talk about with. But I always thought it was due to taste, breeding, or some experiences in life that form our opinion on such a subject. I never viewed it as a matter of a congenital predisposition, rather some shape of mind...
