I think that American men are very homophobic. You can even see it in the way that most of them dress - sweats, baggy pants, etc. And they are afraid to touch one another, although I do see that starting to change. As someone said, after a certain age, sons are not encouraged to kiss or hug their fathers anymore. Although football players can slap each other on the butt

I think that European men are much more comfortable in their masculinity than American men. They dress better, they even walk better (got that John Travolta strut), they have no problem openly gawking at attractive women (American men can be so obtuse about how to approach a woman), they will hug and kiss one another, etc.

I think that American men have made progress, but they need some work.

WOW, this is interesting....how American men would approach women?

I'm going to be serious for a moment. An Angel has fallen.

I've never been bothered if people are unsure of my sexuality. I know I am as straight as an arrow. I've confused many people here and in real life. I love joking around.

But on facial features I've never been able to determine who is 'hot', attractive or even good looking. Sure I can tell who's ugly and not ugly. It's not because I don't swing that way it's because I really don't know. If you want to take that as me being uncomfortable with my sexuality so be it.

But I'm still gay and want to be a fireman.

Wow, nearly a full post being serious.

I feel my brain spinning like a washing machine! :p

ok, let's pretend you are a fireman and you got Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp in your team. Which one would you peep at while taking a shower?

I'd have my hands down both of their pants and I'd be off skiing.

Looking for snowballs???

I'm new to this part of these boards so if I'm off track I apologize but I think most have missed the real answer to the original question. I think most men don't think at all about their own sexuality. Its not that I am afraid to say that some man is attractive, or hot, its just that I never think about it, I could care less. A guy is a guy, just like me, that's the end of the thought process. I think homosexuality is revolting, but if you were to tell me you are gay, I'd say well, good for you, who cares? Men look at women with sex in mind, always. With women I think it might be different. So, bottom line is with most men their own sexuality is way, way down the list.

"If you enjoy it half as much as I have - your days will be fulfilled and you can gom to bed happy every night"

Really? Thats all it takes, wish I'd know that 30 years ago.

Thanks for the welcome

You sure you're talking about the BB? :p

You haven't met our lil' Afi from the BB yet
[/b][/quote]Yeah, Part is right. I've this fascinations/thoughts every 5 seconds too. There are some women that make me wish I was a man every 10 seconds. Every other 10 seconds I remember I'd not probably score with them anyway so it is all good! :p

Disclaimer: This post contains sarcasm! :p

Oh, yeah, sure it does. Of course.

Disclaimer: this one does too. :p

Oh, yeah, sure it does. Of course.

Disclaimer: this one does too. :p [/b][/quote]You feel free to call me Lezbo! I could care less. :p

Oh, BTW, how you doin'?! :p