Iceman, what's the matter with you? I think your brains gone sour from all that heavy metal music that you've been listening to! Never put a bunch of strangers ahead of someone special in your life!
You say that you are close with this cousin and that she is your favorite cousin. Well if that be the case than she obviously wants you to share in her happiness and be a part of her special day. It should not matter if you approve of the groom or not, as it is she that will have to live with him and not you. If you and your cousin are as special to each other as I am interpreting here, than you need to go to the store, buy an Iron Maiden CD, and then book your trip to partake in your favorite cousin's special day.
Don Cardi
