Don't know if you were only referring to the young ones here or not Debra, but......
I remember way way back when "pot" parties didn't start until after 9:00 p.m. so as to avoid getting busted by parents or unexpected visitors. :p Narcs were quite popular, at least in my area, for befriending and then busting pot/drug users, and one was always suspicious of any newcomer. You're not a Narc are you Debra???? :p
Anyway, I put "soft" drugs (pot,in my youth), although I did try "Chocolate Mesc" once and hated it. I was moving at 100 miles an hour. Couldn't stand it.
TIS