Trying to say that boys are rough because they are boys is ridiculous.

Using that logic, then people who are outside the stereotypes of mean aggressive jerk are not "normal."

When society creates what is acceptable and what is not, havoc ensues. How? Well, there was this man named Hitler and to him, Jews weren't "normal" and he created a society that killed people who weren't "normal" by Nazi standards.

The same thing is true today. What about a transsexual? Is he or she outside societal norms and deserves punishment just because he or she does not meet the standard boy or girl stereotypes?

The whole idea of defining what should be male and what should be female is antiquated and dangerous.