I know we've kinda discussed this issue, but why wasn't Fredo invited to sit in on the family discussions? At Connie's wedding, Tom and Santino are there but Fredo is not allowed? When Don Vito gets shot everyone is in the office discussing what to do next, but Fredo wasn't invited? Did Don Vito just not think Fredo would get it? But then what did the Don want Fredo to do, just hang around and be?