Hey Scarlett! Where the heck you been? Welcome back!

I too had to go with Mama Corleone, simply because she stayed married to Vito thru thick/thin. I didn't know a couple of the names you mentioned, but with Appollonia dying and Kay divoricing Michael; Sandra lost Sonny, and we don't really know what their marriage was like, I think Mama deserves the title don't you??

TIS

"Mankind must put an end to war before war puts an end to mankind. War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today." JFK

"War is over, if you want it" - John Lennon