Gurat...I find it interesting that you have used absolutely no logic in making your point, and don't think it should even be dignified with a response... but I had to say something.
In response to Sonny'sGirl's original question I don't see any problem with women in the mafia, as long as they were the right one's. A woman who'd act weak and succumb to the usual sterotypical behavior associated with the gender would obviously not work... but look at Fredo, weakness, simplemindedness and over emotional behavior can be appear in either gender!