Joe Bananas it's good to have you on board. Looks like you'll fit in well here, you seem to know what you're talking about. But you can't debate with this other Bonanno lad. You'll soon learn why.
Goodfella - Yeah I think you're right with the Genevese and Bonanno leadership. Massino has been known for sorting out the Bonanno Family. Apparantly the last Commission meeting was hosted by him so that must show the level of power he now holds on the volcano. But that meeting could all be false. I figure most talk between bosses is done by emissaries. Too much heat for actual meetings for top guys like that.
Gene Gotti is locked up as far as I know. It's hard to follow the Gambino Family now. Gotti, after Gotti after Gotti. The Gambino Family has been in ruins since Johns reign.
Not sure with the Colombo's but while dad has been incarcerated Jr Persico has been running things. Chances are he's been put away too though.
Vic Amuso was the boss of the Lucchese but was too incarcerated in the mid 90's. I couldn't tell you anything recent though. Try Crimelibrary.com, they have full biography's on each Family and more. A ton of knowledge to be learned.