Keep in mind that in the novel Connie asks Vito if he ever hit momma. He answers that she never gave him reason to do so. Think of that. So, I am not sure what kind of values we want to accrue to Vito for comparison with any of his sons.

"Generosity. That was my first mistake."
"Experience must be our only guide; reason may mislead us."
"Instagram is Twitter for people who can't read."