Really? What is that, some kind of divine love? Mind over matter? Why for once we cannot express fundamental human emotions? Body, as fragile as it is, is the form we comprehend easily.


Whisper, I really don't have any good advice for you. I empathize with your state of mind.

I have to agree with some of what DMC has said. While I believe that physical passion is a critical component of any relationship, why is it THE priority here? Why has Whisper not mentioned that he misses her laugh, or sharing any OTHER activities with her? He mentioned that sex is the one thing that he can't stop thinking about, her having sex with other men, so perhaps that was the guiding force behind the relationship.

Whisper, I don't want to trivialize your relationship, turn it into something tawdry, or to try to debate about it. I think that each person goes through the end of a relationship in a different way. But I would stop and consider why those thoughts in particular are the ones that are constant.

There is no cure or magic formula here!
Everyone else has put forward valid and relevant points(i would'nt have expected anything less) but the truth is is takes time and sometimes even time can't heal things.....
But life is a fickle beast and you never know what is around the corner.
Chin up Whisper mate,i hope things get better for ya!

I ran into my x tonight and seeing her, brought me to tears. Honestly, she couldn't care less and I'm dying.

Go to YouTube and see if you can find a video of Roy Orbison's "Crying." It captures your feeling right now. The pain goes away.

There is no "way" to move on. If it occurs at all, it is a function of time and distraction.