If I may...
How/why did you break up? Was it a mutual thing?
We weren't hanging out as much as we used to. We used to live together for two years, but I had to leave that place and she moved back in with her Mom.
Plus, I've been working on my debut album (Under ground conscious hip hop, not Gangster shit :p). An album is hard work and takes up a lot of your time. She said to me, that she was starting to feel like I was putting her second (which I was) and that she wanted to spend more time together doing real stuff, not just sexual etc. I was for it, but i kept finding myself getting busier and busier and then I get locked up for 2 and half weeks, on top of that.
So, I was telling her to stay patient, let me finish this music shit and we'll get back to where we were. Now, she would break down crying saying " you don't love me like you did" and i would assure her I did(which I did), but we were only seeing each other about twice a week as opposed to every minute.
One day, we had a massive fight over the phone. I went out and when I returned home drunk, I walked to her house and banged on her window. She opened it and I said" You don't wanna be with me anymore do you etc etc blah blah. She replied" this isn't even a relationship anymore etc etc..you've let me down and hurt me too much and I'm not going to rely on you to keep me happy anymore"
That's basically it.