I am so very sorry to hear this horrible news. To a great degree, I have a sense of what you are going through. I came close to losing my brother (who ironically is named Paul too) just last March when he had a sudden stroke (he was only 51). No one thought he'd make it. I was fortunate and he survived and is doing well. I saw my parents pain daily as we all stood vigil at his bedside, simply devastated and heartbroken.
My prayers are with you during your time of grief Kly. My sympathy to you and your family. Take care!
TIS
"Mankind must put an end to war before war puts an end to mankind. War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today." JFK
