Thank you, SB. I'll follow your wise advice. I am certainly grateful for the time we had him, and I'll seek comfort from family.

My mind has been flooded by memories from childhood tonight. It's amazing what you can recall when you have to.

In my family at Thanksgiving we pick names to see whom we'll be buying for for Christmas. I picked Paul's name, and it haunts me that I bought a gift for him yesterday, not knowing that he was dead.