Whisper, congratulations!. You are right about life's twists and turns. This will be a cold hard slap in the face as far as reality goes, BUT SB is right about not underestimating just how much joy this child will bring to your life. Your priorities take a sudden and drastic turn.
My best to you.
TIS
"Mankind must put an end to war before war puts an end to mankind. War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today." JFK
Your priorities take a sudden and drastic turn. 
