Fame,
You've really thought things out.
Another point to bring up, or perhaps rephrase is, nearly all discussions (ok many dicussions) can be a matter of one's opinions. Please, don't call one person wrong and the other right when dealing with interpretations. You can totally agree or disagree but really, who's right? Nobody!
For the most part here on the BB, I would say 90 per cent or maybe even 98 percent of the people are respectful to each other. It's only a very small minority that need to be kept in check IMHO. That small percentage somethimes, it seems, can irk everyone. Don't let it. Ignore it.
Let me add, only as a side note, that I feel "on the verge" of letting loose, so I'll apologize in advance if I go off. I'll have my own words thrown in my face. TIS