well if that is true then how the hell didnt the wife know? but, yea more than likely the woman got pissed shot him up then killed her self.

That goes back to my earlier post questioning how Steve's wife could just blindly go on as if he's not around for certain blocks of time. Where did he tell her he was at when he was with the girlfriend?

A cousin of the girl is reported she recently purchased a gun. Ok, what does a 20 year old with no visible reason to fear for her life buy a gun?

she could had bought the gun for protection from a ex boyfriend who cant get over her. if its not that then we may never know. the woman and god knows the motive we wont sadly.

What I really find strange about the gun is she just purchased it Thursday night. Then she met up with him Saturday and killed both of them. I think she planned this.

if it was planned then they broked up before thursday...then if the condo was hers she invited him there, and maybe tried to get back together. he didnt want to, so she kills him...then her self. if it was his condo then for some reason mcnair let her in, and she might had tried to get back together. it does make sense, and its sad that a 20 year old has to end it that way, and before she would end her life she had to take his life and ruin his family life as well.

Wow!

Just heard this. What a surprise and a shame.

RIP.

Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Police: Shootings a murder-suicide
Associated Press

NASHVILLE, Tenn. -- Police confirmed Wednesday that ex-NFL star Steve McNair's 20-year-old girlfriend killed him before turning the gun on herself.

They said they may never know what was going through Sahel Kazemi's mind when she shot McNair in his condominium early Saturday, but interviews with friends led detectives to conclude she was becoming increasingly distraught over events in her life, including financial problems. Police said she also suspected McNair was seeing another woman.

Police earlier had labeled McNair's death a homicide, but awaited further tests and investigation before saying for sure what happened.

At one point, Kazemi told an associate that her "personal life was all screwed up," Police Chief Ronal Serpas said. She had mounting debts and had been unable to sell her car. Her roommate was moving, which would have doubled her rent.

"We do know that she was clearly sending a message during the last five to seven days of her life that things were going bad quickly," Serpas said, though there was no indication she told anyone she planned to harm McNair.

Serpas said police believe McNair was asleep on a sofa when Kazemi shot him in the head. She then apparently shot him twice in the chest before shooting him again in the head and then shooting herself.

McNair, a quarterback for the Tennessee Titans most of his career, was shot at a condo he rented with another man. The gun was found underneath Kazemi.

Kazemi's family told reporters that the woman was so confident McNair was divorcing his wife of 12 years that she was preparing to sell her furniture and move in with him.

But associate Mike Mu, who has worked with McNair's charitable association for years, said McNair's wife, Mechelle McNair, "didn't know who this girl is." No records of divorce proceedings have surfaced.

Two days before the shooting, police stopped Kazemi driving the Escalade sport utility vehicle that McNair gave her for her birthday in May.

According to an arrest affidavit, Kazemi had bloodshot eyes and alcohol on her breath. She refused a breath test and told an officer "she was not drunk, she was high." She was charged with DUI. McNair was with her but not charged. He later made her bail.

would that 'other' woman be his wife?

So this cuckoo broad is cheating with a married man, which makes her a pig in my book, then she has the gall to be surprised and angered when he's cheating behind her back with someone else? What'd she expect?

What a ridiculous reason to end a man's life and to take him away from his children.

Hell hath no fury like a 20 year old adulteress scorned, huh?

can you still brand a woman with a capital 'A'?

PB, let me get this straight. He's married for 12 years and a father of four. He is having an affair with a 20 year old girl, 16 years younger than he is, and has allegedly led her to believe that he's going to leave his wife for her.

And SHE'S the pig?? Like there's no chance that, since she was a a young, single waitress, he might have dazzled her a bit with his fame and his money, and taken a little-bitty-bit advantage of HER???

In what can only be eerie irony, Steve taped a public service announcement not long ago to air in Tennessee. It was about Suicide prevention geared towards young people. Of course, it won't air now.

it will be on youtube soon enough

I'm watching the memorial service online now. I swear, if this woman praying says "God" one more time I'll shoot myself.

another thing that escaped my mind was that when ever somebody makes a comment or comerical it always hunt them (i.e james dean with a drive safety commerical, john wayne with cancer, steve mcnair, and others)

Yeah, James' Dean's was very fore seeing: "Be careful out there. The life you save could be mine". Or maybe not.

In non sports related MJ's final concert was befitting. "This is it". You can't get more "it" than death.

sadly by the looks of that it was going to be good...but, yea weird coresidnece seems to bite back. dean had two one with that famous commercial, and another made by an actor (best known as obi-wan) who told dean that "if you get in that thing (little basterd) you will die in a week" or something like that...a week later he crashed and sadly didnt make it.

Don't get me wrong, Babe. I honestly didn't mean to come off as sexist, because it easily could have been a 36 year old woman, cheating on her husband with a 20 year old man-child, and I would have said the same thing (that the 20 year old was a pig). Plus, McNair was clearly an adulterer himself. And not to sound cold-hearted, but when you play, you pay.

But about the girl: ANYONE who gets involved with a married person, male or female, is an adulterer. And not to sound Holier than thou, but it's wrong. Breaking up a marriage is wrong. Taking a man or a woman away from their children is wrong. Divorce hurts enough without knowing that your father was off banging some 20 year old star-struck tartlet.

You're right, McNair was wrong. DEAD wrong (pardon the tacky pun). But when it comes to the girl, I'm sticking to my guns. She was a pig.

She was a pig. Absolutely. But I think a 36 year old man is held to more higher level than a 20 year old. Most 20 years olds barely have left their mother's bossoms.

As far as her taking him away from his family...the minute he stuck his penis inside another woman HE took himself away from his family.

I still feel sorry for the wife, but you're not gonna tell me that if a woman's husband is off on vacations at different times the wife doens't KNOW something. She's either the dumbest bitch alive, or they had some kind of don't ask/don't tell policy.

Again, I am NOT defending him. The man fucked around and paid the price. I'm going to stop short at saying he got what was coming to him, because I don't believe in taking another life. But I'll say this again, When you play, you pay.

Plus, cheating with a woman so much younger makes McNair look even worse than if she was his own age. It has a devastating effect on the wife. I've read that women from 35-50 are the most vulnerable and insecure demographic in the entire world, due to their self-consciousness about their changing bodies. It's a real kick in the ass when your husband goes out and validates all of your fears by shtupping some 20 year old harpy.

I'm not just saying this, but I can't even imagine being attracted to a 20 year old woman. It borders on pedophelia.

They're both pieces of shit. It just bugs me when the woman who sleeps with the married man is accused of "taking him from his family". He took himself from his family. Her crime was killing the man, he didin't deserve that. But the blame of the family being "left" lies squarely on his shoulders.

My feeling is if he kept the penis in his pants except for his wife he'd still be alive today. I feel no sympathy for cheaters...of either sex.

We agree, Bethee. I should have worded it better.

Beth, I'd have to say that his wife probably liked being "Mrs. McNair" and all the benefits that came with it. That was her part of the deal - she turned a blind eye and he paid her platinum Amex.

I think it was before that when he got the idea to cheat in the big head.