And THERE's the catch, for you're 100% correct about them all. But think about it..in Sinatra's second (or third) heyday, he was married to Mia Farrow, a 21-year-old pussycat with large blue eyes and skinny frame. Every man in America wanted her, or at least a part of her. And Sinatra was over 50, married to a little sexpot, still having another 15 years of heavy-duty partying left. Only the last 5 or so years might be considered painful. He even performed at Foxwoods (a casino in CT) in 1993. Not bad. We all need some pain sooner or later...but these guys had far more pleasure.