To me it doesn't really matter if he resents tom or not for Sonny's murder. Tha fact is that when he says to tom admires him and all that other garbage he probably doesn't mean it he is just trying to put tom at ease and do what he wants him to do
And what was that exactly?
I'm not sure it was 'garbage' - "I'm trusting you with the lives of my wife and my children".
