I think I understand your point. For me, i'll treat people relating to how they act. If a woman is going out of her way to be polite and act like a "lady", i'll treat her as such. If some gobby cow from Ricky Lake talking about how "she's all that" expects to be treated in such way as well, she's got another thing coming. She is definately not a lady and deserves no recognition in this way at all.
