I wish my gf had that problem.

Actually I just got off the phone with my mom, and that's EXACTLY what she sounded like. Funny.

Umm.. His name is Jamie.. He's 20.. He's really good at skateboarding apparently, there's even a street named after him (unofficially). He's taller than I am.. (I'm 5'6).. Brown hair.. brown eyes.. Surprisingly no tattoos or piercings.. (My last two guys had both.. So my mom's pretty happy that this one doesnt)..

I don't know where he's taking me.. probably a movie or something. I hope he doesn't take me to eat.. Whenever I meet a guy I like, I get nervous and don't eat for days.. It's a psychological thing I think..

It's kind of a funny story how I met him.. Well not really but kind of. I was riding around with my friend Jocelyn.. and we pulled into a gas station to look through her cell phone to find someone to call. I glance over, and there's this kid pumping gas (it's self serve.. he doesn't work at a gas station lol).. and I think he's hot. So I told her about it... so we drove past him.. and I look up and he waved at me.. and was motioning for me to come back.. So we, being the spontaneous girls we are, went back. He came over and introduced himself.. and got our numbers. He said he had to go home to get a shower and stuff, but that he'd call me back and we'd hang out. He called about an hour later, and me and Jocelyn were a little worried that he'd uhh do stuff we didn't want him to do.. so we chose a public place to meet at.. (a restaurant).. and he met us there.

We were talking.. and Jocelyn said something about being a daddy's girl.. and I said that I'm not a daddy's girl, or a mommy's girl.. and Jamie said that I was his girl.. And he called me beautiful.. and no one's ever said that to me before.. So we had to go home by 11, because it was a school night.

And today I went to Panera Bread, where he works, and talked to him.. and he asked me out on a date.

So yeah, if you read that complete rambling.. you get yourself a cookie.

LMAO

It's alright, I like you.

lmao.

Bogey, you've got your mom here (TIS) and your brother/dad (DonMichaelCorleone) so I'll be your sister...

This is a random guy you met (literally) on the street, so be super careful. Don't believe everything he says, a lot of guys put on a "nice guy" facade just to get some. The age difference isn't that bad, just the whole rest of the situation is kinda... I don't know. Maybe he's a great guy. Just be careful.

Have fun!

Awesome, I've got a BB family.

Yeah, that's part of the reason why I'm so nervous. I don't know him all that well, I just met him a week ago. But I know people who know him, and they say he's a nice guy. So I dunno. I'll be careful. I know where to kick a guy when he gets too 'fresh'.. haha.

Brother and father.....I didn't know we where from the south

'Atta girl!

Hey, once you pass midnight, start singing "Good morning!" and if he catches on and starts tap-dancing, you'll know for sure if he's your Don Lockwood.

You guys are seriously cracking me up.

I didn't see a location on yours, so I just assumed. Hey, I don't ask questions. BTW, so Arkansas? haha

"It's all relative in West Virginia."

Bogey,

When my girls were dating, their dad always told them:

A sure way to keep this guy on the straight and narrow. When he comes to the door, tell him you mother isn't home and your dad's cleaning his shotgun.

Now look, we've turn poor Bogey's date into somewhat of a comedy. Seriously Bogey, I agree with Zia, be careful, but don't be so nervous you can't enjoy yourself. I'm sure it'll go fine.

TIS

Actually my dad almost answered the door holding a baseball bat with my last guy I brought home. I told him if he did, I go out and wait for Josh (the guy) on the curb.. and he really wanted to meet him, so he put the bat away.

It's alright. You guys are kind of making me less nervous.

I like the way he thinks!!!!!!!! (except I wouldn't have put the bat away )

He didn't want to, but my mom told him to be nice. Or he'd be sleeping on the couch that night.

oh thats no fair. That's why I've learned to do the stupid stuff AFTER "the private time" then they can't withhold anything

Ewwwwwwww. I don't want to think about my parent's "private time".... yuckkkkkkkk.

God.. I nearly peed my pants just now.. the phone rang, and I thought it was him..

But no. It was some annoying girl trying to get me to go to a college that I've shown no interest in at all. Boo.

Uh, that was me. Why don't you wanna come here?? It's a GREAT school! Just playing with ya

Wow.. its amazing how high-pitched your voice was...


Uhh.. it's 9 o'clock.. and he hasn't called yet. But he told me when he asked me out that he might not be able to do something. He's helping his sister clean her house, because her in-laws are coming in... and he wasn't sure what time he'd be done with that. But he said he'd call no matter what. So I don't know whats wrong with that boy. I think he's got some short-term memory loss. The first time I met him, I had to tell him 3 times that I didn't drink.

Why did he have to ask if you drink in the first place?......YOU ARE 17!

lol. He didn't know I was 17 yet.. and besides that, there are hundreds of kids at my school who drink underage.. Hell I know of some 7th graders who get drunk. Its awful.

I don't like when men talk at all to a girl about drinking, that usually means they have one thing on their mind!


Do you want to adopt an older brother

lol. You really hate this guy, don't you.

Sure. I've always wanted an older brother.

True Story:

When I was about 17 years old, I asked this girl out for a date. She told me that when I came to pick her up that I had to ring her bell and meet her father. Ok, no problem, I was a cocky 17 year old, full of P**s and Vinegar. So I go to her house and ring her bell. She answers the door and I go in. She introduces me to her father, who was very warm towards me. She tells me that she is going upstairs to get her stuff and will be down in a couple of minutes. So here I am sitting with her mother and father, and they are both really being extremely nice to me. The mother gets up and goes into another room. Now it's me and dad. He starts to talk and says to me " see that picture over there?" while pointing to a picture of him and his daughter on the end table. He continues " she is my baby, she is my life, I'm telling you straight out, if anything happens to her while she is in your company, I will cut your B*lls off and stick em down your throat!" I was speechless, almost couldn't breathe! With that the daughter comes into the room and her father's whole expression changes back to smiley and jolly, etc. He tells us to have a great time, etc. Well I'll tell you something, I didn't even attempt to kiss this poor girl the whole night. I dropped her off and that was it! Never called her again!

Now it's 25 years later and I have a young daughter of my own, who in several years will probably start dating ( that's if I don't lock her in a convent before that ). Now that I look back at that incident and that man, I now understand why he was so protective of his little girl! Not that I would ever threaten a boy who came to court her, in that manner, But I sure will think it!

A true story.


Don Cardi

I hate ALL men......lol jk

I honestly get annoyed with older guys dating younger girls. It makes me wonder why they can't find a girl their own age, its because they don't want a relationship they want s**. So they try and go for a younger girl who gets all excited because an older guy likes her and then they try and take advantage of her. I don't have many friends because I can't stand guys talking about how they can get some girl 3-4 years younger than them to have sex with them.

As for the drinking, I don't think any MAN should specifically (sp?) ask a girl if she drinks. That is just a reason to get her drunk and then take advantage of her and blame it on the drinks.

I think a 20 year old has no business with a 17 year old, but even if he did, he should be mature enough and man enough to say you are 17 years old you will not be drinking around me.

So besides the fact that I don't trust him to begin with, and then he brings up drinking which makes me very suspicious - so besides wanting to leave him in a pool of his own blood if he even gets remotely out of line with you, then I like him

Hey Bogey,

Ya need an older sister? I'll go to that bread place and check him out. Don't worry I got your back if it turns out he's a jerk. Hope all goes well tonight.

Only thing meaner than a Navy Man is his wife

Only thing meaner than a Navy Man is his wife [/QB][/QUOTE]

You got that right.

Don Cardi,
I remember when my daughter started dating if her date wanted a kiss goodnight when he brought her home my husband told him that before he kissed her they had to kiss him first right on the lips.
One time he was cleaning his guns when one of her dates picked her up. You talking about someone being nervous.

Don Cardi, that was hilarious. My dad did that to my first boyfriend. I didn't talk to him for 3 weeks.

lol. I really do like you.

Sure. I don't have one of those either!! My family is getting bigger by the minute.


Quick update for y'all. I just talked to Jamie on the phone. My friend Jocelyn is coming to pick me up and take me down to Kroger's (a grocery store).. and we're meeting him there. (We're meeting at Kroger's because it's just at the bottom of my hill).. I don't know what we're going to do, because I have to be home by 11.. but uhh we'll see.