Bogey, I am soooo happy for you. Every woman has to have at least one shitty boyfriend to use as a yardstick for future relationships. Although I'm sure if you were that generous, there must have been some good in him. But I'm glad you're moving on. My niece met someone her freshman year (at WVU, actually) and stayed with him their entire four years. Then she came back up north, he stayed in WV, and they ended up breaking up. She regretted getting so serious with someone so early in her college life because she felt that she missed out on making new friendships, and taking advantage of all the social opportunities. And you're right, he does sound awfully young. And, btw, why does someone so young need 16 hours of sleep every night?? Does he have health problems?? Sounds ridiculous to me. And I have to agree with you that his immaturity has contributed to his selfishness.

Move on, my friend!! And enjoy!!