Ok, I misunderstood you Don, sorry. I agree with you on this too, as I feel that divorce can be necessary only in extreme cases. I feel that a man & women should get divorced only if one has cheater on the other or something like that. This whole, well we just don't get along anymore is for the birds. I LOVE my mother to death but we don't always get along. But that doesn't mean I'm going to disown her or anything. I also agree with you Don that there are A LOT of hypocrites who claim to be Christians, which also makes me sick because it gives the rest of us a bad name!