I'm so sorry to hear about your grandparent's passing Iceman. I never knew my grandfathers, just my grandmothers. To this day, I miss them very much. My sympathies.
Where in California? It's too bad this trip is for such a tragic reason. My best to you and your family.
TIS
"Mankind must put an end to war before war puts an end to mankind. War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today." JFK