Originally posted by plawrence:
But, I can absolutely guarantee that the parents are [b]less unhappy than if a baby had been caried to term and then died at age three months froms SIDS or something. [/b]
There is less "closeness" between the life that was lost and the parents in this case. A life lost just the same. I can certainly understand the humanness behind feeling "less" emotional (if possible, as you've stated) but regardless, it still hurts.