Yes, we are having a barbeque as well.

Got shirts for the grand kids that says "Daddy loves me best". Got a shirt for my Son that says "daddy loves you all the same"

I have one that says"uncle tony rule" when my uncle tony would come to our house when I was a kid. He did not want kids talking at the dinner table. We called it the "uncle tony rule."

Our kids and our grand kids were told about the uncle tony rule. When they get to loud I say uncle tony rule.