I think the issue boils down to a fact that has been discussed ad nauseum on this board--mobsters are regular guys. Granted, they're (mostly) from traditional neighborhoods, but the guys who grew up watching television shows with sympathetic gay characters and have seen gay guys basically accepted in New York society will one day be making the decisions about who gets their button. I don't think it's around the corner, but if the mob is still around 30-40 years from now, I would bet on them making some gays.