According to John Alite's book Victoria Gotti sr. was the boss of the Gotti household and Gotti also called her Butch..
it was known from the 70s that john always called her butch even junior says that so dont act like alite knew this
how the fuck would alite knows what goes on in the gotti household that lying fuck never stepped foot in the house or "lived there" as he claimed what a lying fuck