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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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08/06/16 05:26 AM
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Terrible crime but Queens and NYC is FAR less violent then it was years ago unless you are talking about the 1950s or so
This isn't directed at anyone but I never really understood when people say this never would of happened years ago. It probably just has to do with memory but most neighborhoods in the 80s and into the mid 90s was literally night and day from a violent. crime perspective comparaed to today.
I hate Guiliani but he really did an outstanding job with crime that did pave the wave for outstanding real estate returns for some Thank you for that comment and I agree with you, for the most part. But I will try to speak a bit from personal experience, not NYPD stats. I'm 41 and have been attending a martial arts school on Linden BLVD in Ozone Park for many of those years. It is the last Italian "stretch" of Ozone Park. Recently, the grocery store right next to us was robbed at gunpoint - during the day. Now this is a stones throw from the former Bergin Hunt club. Does this happen in 1989? I realize crime is way down in general, but in eastern Queens it doesn't seem that way. There is evidence of human trafficking on nearly every major corner (massage dens, gambling parlors, 24 hour nail salons, Korean "companion" bars). Then there is the oft repeated statement that many rape victims never come forward. If true, this would negate the NYPD claim that rape is at a 40 year low. Considering it took decades for hundreds of child abuse victims in the Boston Dioceses to come forward, it may very well be true. Child Slavery in Flushing: http://queenscrap.blogspot.com/2016/01/child-slavery-in-flushing.htmlRape and homicide: http://queenscrap.blogspot.com/2015/10/woman-found-dead-at-kissena-park.htmlTriple homicide: http://www.timesledger.com/stories/2014/37/fire_web_2014_09_09_q.html25 small children in a house: http://www.qchron.com/editions/queenswid...8ba38f52a2.html
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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Can't stand that instigator Al Sharpton, what a scumbag of a man.. You wouldn't say the guys who chased Michael Griffith into moving traffic while yelling racial slurs at him weren't instigators as well? What happened was horrible, but they were in a fight and things like that can happen. These guys were no saints either..
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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i doubt it was some random derelect lurking in the bushes there. my guess , that id bet on, was it was someone she knew. or someone who knew her at least. she was a pretty popular girl in real life and online... thousands of instagram followers. couldnt be too far out of the realm that it was someone who knew her and was stalking her. makes more sense than a psycho hiding out in the woods in the most residential, least outsider friendly (to this day) neighborhood in queens I bet that perp knew her, but she didn't know him. Like you said she had thousands of followers on Instagram and almost all of the pics I saw of her were of her in full make-up, sexy clothes or tight work out clothes for every stranger out there to see. I'm not saying it's wrong what she did, but it can attract some obsessive followers, online and in real life..
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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What happened was horrible, but they were in a fight and things like that can happen. These guys were no saints either.. The backgrounds of the victims are not relevant. They were accosted and eventually assaulted, and one of them eventually killed, because they were black. That's all that matters in regards to this incident alone. Al Sharpton, or anyone, bringing attention to the matter is not a moral equivalent to the assault and killing. His right to free speech is protected by the constitution. The bigoted and violent actions by the scumbags in Howard Beach were not. Bravo, well stated sir. https://media.giphy.com/media/10Shl99Vghh5aU/giphy.gif
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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I keep reading poor girl on this thread. Why do you feel so sorry for girls like her? Don't tell me that you're all that sheltered!! This girl should have listened to her father. He knew that she would not be safe on the trail without him; he saw how men looked at her. You can't go running ALONE on a deserted trail in this day and age. The girls of today are in La La Land. I read that she was texting a friend and then stopped. You can't text, you can't look at ur phone, how ridiculous. As a female, you need your eyes and ears open to be completely alert of your surroundings. You need pepper spray, a knife, a life alert around your friggin neck. This female was a complete idiot!!! This would not have happened when Gotti was around, not because of him but because of the mentality of the people back in those days. The females knew better than to DISOBEY their fathers' warnings and were much more street smart than the females of today. I feel sorry for her father!! Poor man, looks like he did everything right but just couldn't knock any sense into his clueless daughter!! And I just have a feeling the guy who killed her was probably someone she knew casually. At first I thought it may have been her ex boyfriend but now I'm not so sure. Dumb girl got herself killed. What the hell is wrong with you? Although I agree it's not the smartest thing to do, how could you blame the girl for simply going on a run? And I'm sick of people saying "back then this" or "back then that." Ever hear of Ted Bundy? Or Dahmer? Or gacy? Horrible shit like this has always happened. Nothings changed. Absolutely nothing is wrong with me! This girl was a friggin moron for not listening to her father and going on a run ALONE on a trail in a desolate area. Sure, we females should be able to feel safe but we need to be overly cautious when we are ALONE. You cannot let your guard down for one second. This girl had no chance, no chance. She put herself into that situation and was killed because of her own stupidity!!!!! That is kinda true,AFG..maniacs did exist, but we, as a society, forget so quickly..what about the litte girl who was abused by her parents in the 90s..debra something or other..in fuckin' beauty pagents or some such shit ..their r still sick fucks out there.
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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This story is about a young girl who was Viciously attacked,Killed and Raped.I couldn't care less about sharpton, griffith or the other 2..(that died from aids,needle sharing)or the other guy who was charged with 16 years for shooting his brother.Real upstanding citizens...The attack on her, probably wouldn't have happened years ago..That's a fact. The neighborhood is not the same as it was. Car theft was the only real problem years ago. Unfortunately that can be said about a lot of neighborhoods in NY. I grew up in the Wakefield section of the Bronx and now when I go back I see it has become a total shit hole. it's just the world we are living in. My heart goes out to this girl's family. A total tragedy. You have to be so careful everywhere you go these days there are a lot of people looking to do harm. I don't think anyone could have prevented this. The release of mental patients from psychiatric Centers, the Homeless, the criminals with extensive arrest records and your ordinary run of the mill pervert are out there preying on the unsuspecting. I used to deliver mail in Wakefield.
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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I bet that perp knew her, but she didn't know him. Like you said she had thousands of followers on Instagram and almost all of the pics I saw of her were of her in full make-up, sexy clothes or tight work out clothes for every stranger out there to see. I'm not saying it's wrong what she did, but it can attract some obsessive followers, online and in real life.. Possible. Then again, it could still be the ex boyfriend she dumped, who was immensely jealous based on all the things you pointed out, and lacked the ability to keep his butt hurt emotions in check. There are a lot of men like that running around today, in the mainstream, who have these kinds of thoughts in their heads when attractive women reject them. They think that because these women are on instagram, twitter, etc., showing off their looks, that they should be easy or something. When it turns out these women are not easy, and these dorks are forced to face the fact that they just don't have what it takes as a man to attract them, they act out in strange ways. In most cases it's just complaining to friends while drowning in beer, and things like that. Some blame feminism. And then there's that lunatic few that take it a step further.
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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08/07/16 10:19 PM
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I keep reading poor girl on this thread. Why do you feel so sorry for girls like her? Don't tell me that you're all that sheltered!! This girl should have listened to her father. He knew that she would not be safe on the trail without him; he saw how men looked at her. You can't go running ALONE on a deserted trail in this day and age. The girls of today are in La La Land. I read that she was texting a friend and then stopped. You can't text, you can't look at ur phone, how ridiculous. As a female, you need your eyes and ears open to be completely alert of your surroundings. You need pepper spray, a knife, a life alert around your friggin neck. This female was a complete idiot!!! This would not have happened when Gotti was around, not because of him but because of the mentality of the people back in those days. The females knew better than to DISOBEY their fathers' warnings and were much more street smart than the females of today. I feel sorry for her father!! Poor man, looks like he did everything right but just couldn't knock any sense into his clueless daughter!! And I just have a feeling the guy who killed her was probably someone she knew casually. At first I thought it may have been her ex boyfriend but now I'm not so sure. Dumb girl got herself killed. http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/fitness...5f09ddf1317b4c8Relevant article in light of this insensitive and bileful post.
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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I wasn't trying to make some all encompassing statement on crime . I was just saying people sometimes forget how many murders went down in NYC back in the day. I agree. Especially if you didn't spend time here and really feel the difference in the atmosphere then and now. And not just murders, but all kinds of violent crimes. There are no doubt still plenty of disaster areas in the city but I think by and large NYC is less violent than the 90s. Absolutely. And crime stats back it up.
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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Some men cannot help themselves and will attack
We, women need to make smart decisions and can never let our guard down. Look up or ask someone who lives in that neighborhood and ask them if they would let their sister or daughter run ALONE on that trail. And they'll tell you It is not safe.
Definitely a very unsettling reality, part of the reason why I haven't had and probably never have kids
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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Definitely a very unsettling reality, part of the reason why I haven't had and probably never have kids
Well, if you have boys you could always, you know, teach them not to be rapists and murderers 
All God's children are not beautiful. Most of God's children are, in fact, barely presentable.
I never met anyone who didn't have a very smart child. What happens to these children, you wonder, when they reach adulthood?
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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Someone mentioned it above. She broke up with her boyfriend 2 days before she was killed. The article said he liked her more than she liked him. He was cleared with an alibi but I wouldn't rule him out. http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/quee...ticle-1.2738297Vetrano broke up with her boyfriend just two days before her death in a desolate stretch of Spring Creek Park, only a short distance from her Howard Beach home.
The high-ranking source said the spurned lover was quickly ruled out as a suspect after providing an alibi. “He thought their relationship was more than casual, but she disagreed,” the source said. They also said many homeless hung out at the area she was killed. So to me it was either the boyfriend or a crazy homeless person.
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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Definitely a very unsettling reality, part of the reason why I haven't had and probably never have kids
Well, if you have boys you could always, you know, teach them not to be rapists and murderers Wait that's all it takes? All of our problems would be solved if only the American people chastised rapist and murderers. Still I will settle for no children
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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Of course that isn't all it takes. You have to lock up your daughters too. Aren't you reading the thread?
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All God's children are not beautiful. Most of God's children are, in fact, barely presentable.
I never met anyone who didn't have a very smart child. What happens to these children, you wonder, when they reach adulthood?
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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Wait that's all it takes? All of our problems would be solved if only the American people chastised rapist and murderers. Still I will settle for no children I hear ya Dude, I do have a 5 year old daughter and I worry about in what kind of a world she'll be living in, in about 25 years or so.. There was a study over here in Holland that said that a majority of the population negatively judged people who chose to be deliberately childless. And if asked why, a lot of people answered that these people were selfish in their eyes. To me that is absurd and in my eyes it's often the other way around, a lot of people get children for their own needs even if their situation, financial or otherwise, or their relationship isn't very stable, they think a child will change everything..
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Re: Howard Beach, hypothetical question
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You're a perceptive man Billy. Great points.
Not everyone wants kids, and it's certain that not everyone should have them
All God's children are not beautiful. Most of God's children are, in fact, barely presentable.
I never met anyone who didn't have a very smart child. What happens to these children, you wonder, when they reach adulthood?
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