Hi Krlea,
I always liked Tom, RD played the part well, and I understand what you mean by the most "normal". He isn't a bad looking guy either, but for me, I never considered him "hot". Don't know why, just my taste I guess.
However, I do know that you are not alone because, although I can't remember who, there have been several posts by those ladies who found Tom very appealing. I'm sure we'll be hearing from them.
TIS