At the end of the day this thread shows that two intelligent, responsible adults, NYMafia and BH, can agree to disagree. That's the American way.
Then again there's a Bigot in the mix and that really sucks. Having different opinions are one thing, but it's more important to respect one another.
Not necassary agreeing nor disagreeing. Just cultural differences in who/why 1 celebrates it & others don't.
Cheers